Networking advice defaults to large events ('go to the conference, work the room'). For most women — especially introverts — this format is exhausting and produces fewer career-meaningful connections than deeper one-on-one engagement. The format matters; the relationships matter more.
What works for most women
Monthly 1:1 coffee or call with someone whose work you find interesting. One per month is sustainable. Twelve per year compounds into substantial relationship base.
Written engagement (LinkedIn comments, newsletter replies, longer-form responses) builds visibility without requiring real-time conversation. Plays to introvert strengths.
Hosting (small lunches, dinners with curated 6-8 people) gives you control over the format. Easier than attending large events for many.
Networking isn't the same as event attendance. The connections that move careers are usually deeper, fewer, and built over months — not collected at conferences.